Hello lovelies,
Marriage. It's a topic that seems to be following me every single day lately. Probably because I am a 26, with my first degree and the next "logical" step is to get married. Almost every little girl dreams of her fairy tale wedding. Complete with a shit ton of guests, the perfect matching napkins, flawless make-up and of course your prince charming standing at the end of the aisle.
Yea, I didn't dream of that. I pushed marriage out of my head at a really young age for a very, very long time. Instead of a white dress, I dreamed of multiple graduation gowns. Instead of man's last name behind my first, I wanted either J.D. or Dr. to accompany my last.
Then the last semester of my Bachelor's came and I realized that a good portion of the friends were engaged, getting married, already married or in serious relationships. Log onto Facebook and every other day a new "blah girl is engaged [or married] to blah boy". I started to re-think my career decisions, my choice of life style...everything. All because I really started to see that the pressure (seemed) to be on for me to have my shit together, settle down and get married.
Let's just say I snapped out of that mindset real fast. Don't get me wrong, I am happy for anyone who decides to make that leap. Good for you. Marriage really is a beautiful thing. I am lucky that my parents are still married and I can see first hand what it really means to be married and love someone unconditionally, even if they don't deserve it sometimes. What I am not okay with is society basically telling me that I need to be at that point right now. I have had women flat out tell me that I should be in that mindset. Or confused, because I don't want to get married right now. Why? because my "clock" is ticking or I am not getting any younger. Some of you may be thinking "well that's just lingering feelings from older generations". Nope some of these are girls my own age, even younger.
I realize that this post is not really related to online dating. However, it is related to dating in general. Sometimes we get so wrapped in the fairy tale ending that we forget to have fun in our relationships. We place these huge expectations and timelines that makes us forget to live and learn about each other at a normal pace. It makes me sad, really. Trust me this doesn't only apply to marriage. I was so concentrated on making a name for myself that I forgot to live. I became this mean, cold, distant person because I gave myself an artificial timeline. Which, by the way I am pretty far from at this point. However, I am okay with that, life happens.
I need to say that I, Tia, am okay with not being married right now. That I do not feel like I need to pressure the person who I am dating to to put a ring on my finger because that's what's "suppose" to happen. Would it be nice one day? Yea, one day when I am not living paycheck to paycheck. When I can come home every day from a career that I love and know I am making a difference at. When I know that BOTH of us are ready mentally, physically and financially for that next step. Could be in 2 years could be in 10, I have no idea and I don't CARE right now. Why should I add that extra pressure to a relationship? It paints people into an artificial box that can lead to resentment. I've seen it first hand., many times. I've experienced it and it does not feel good. I don't want to be painted into a box and I sure as hell don't want to lose the man that I love because I keep saying "so uhh when we getting married?".
What do you think? Do you feel pressured to get married? Heck, maybe you like the pressure? Let's have a conversation.
Until then, I need chocolate and to catch up on Doctor Who.
Sunday, May 5, 2013
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Worlds away...
Hello lovelies,
This post comes to you after a conversations I've had with a bunch of people, from strangers to family to friends.
You've gone on so many dates with more local guys than you can count. You could probably fill a book with how many dud dates you've been on. Then this really awesome guy messages you. You talk for hours upon hours, day after day. Then BAM you realize you've fallen for someone clear across the country or the world. Well shit. Now what? Now you're faced with the dreaded long distance relationship scenario.
The interweb has a way of making us feel so close, yet so far from people. It's a curse and a blessing. Online dating brings so many people together in one virtual space where everyone is simultaneously looking for their chance at true love at the same time. That sounded kinda corny and out of character, but you get what I'm saying. Sometimes that person who you finally made a deep connection with, is far. The kind of far that has you catching a red eye flight on Virgin Atlantic. Which I just learned has free booze even for economy seats. Kudos to Virgin who know what the people want!!
Random people and friends have asked me, "Well, isn't a long distance relationship hard? I don't think I could do that."
My answer? Yes, it is hard. It's incredibly hard. Arguably one of the hardest things you may ever have to do in your entire life. You'll have to compromise, a lot. You'll have to be ready to work, tirelessly. You have to be ready to accept that you may only get to hug them a few times a year. That a weekend is all you get to pack in the memories, pictures and playful flirting. You'll have to work through miscommunications and nights or days when you just don't talk, because...well life. You'll have to accept that you can't drive to their house at the drop of a dime when life really sucks and all you want is a tub of ice cream and a cuddle. You'll become an expert navigator at your local airport (actually, that may be a perk. lol). Be ready to face insecurities, jealousy issues,and trust issues head on.
So all that sucks. Why the hell would anyone want to put themselves through that? Well to be honest, I don't know. However, talk to anyone in a long distance relationship and they will likely say something along the lines of "Well I love him/her, so it's worth it." Yes it's scary (and expensive). The odds aren't staked in your favor. Sometimes it does feel like you're more likely to be asked to become a member of The Justice League than actually making a long distance relationship work. But, it is worth it...usually. If anything you will learn so much about yourself as a person, that you probably wouldn't have gotten from any other relationship.
I've had two long distance relationships. The first one ended terribly. The second one is a story in the making. It's difficult, to say the least. There are things that I have to work on. Have I accepted everything I said above? Most of them I have. I've had time to accept them. I'm working on some of the points I made though. What I can tell you is for me, it's worth it, 100%. In short, he makes me happy and that's really all that matters at the end of the day.
And yes, I met him online. Back in the day when it was quite common to see the letters 'a/s/l' at the beginning of a conversation.
Moral of the story? If you find someone who you you've fallen for and you're faced with the prospects of a long distance relationship, give it a shot. Plunge into the unknown, sometimes the gifts it yields are larger than life.
Till next time,
happy hunting
This post comes to you after a conversations I've had with a bunch of people, from strangers to family to friends.
You've gone on so many dates with more local guys than you can count. You could probably fill a book with how many dud dates you've been on. Then this really awesome guy messages you. You talk for hours upon hours, day after day. Then BAM you realize you've fallen for someone clear across the country or the world. Well shit. Now what? Now you're faced with the dreaded long distance relationship scenario.
The interweb has a way of making us feel so close, yet so far from people. It's a curse and a blessing. Online dating brings so many people together in one virtual space where everyone is simultaneously looking for their chance at true love at the same time. That sounded kinda corny and out of character, but you get what I'm saying. Sometimes that person who you finally made a deep connection with, is far. The kind of far that has you catching a red eye flight on Virgin Atlantic. Which I just learned has free booze even for economy seats. Kudos to Virgin who know what the people want!!
Random people and friends have asked me, "Well, isn't a long distance relationship hard? I don't think I could do that."
My answer? Yes, it is hard. It's incredibly hard. Arguably one of the hardest things you may ever have to do in your entire life. You'll have to compromise, a lot. You'll have to be ready to work, tirelessly. You have to be ready to accept that you may only get to hug them a few times a year. That a weekend is all you get to pack in the memories, pictures and playful flirting. You'll have to work through miscommunications and nights or days when you just don't talk, because...well life. You'll have to accept that you can't drive to their house at the drop of a dime when life really sucks and all you want is a tub of ice cream and a cuddle. You'll become an expert navigator at your local airport (actually, that may be a perk. lol). Be ready to face insecurities, jealousy issues,and trust issues head on.
So all that sucks. Why the hell would anyone want to put themselves through that? Well to be honest, I don't know. However, talk to anyone in a long distance relationship and they will likely say something along the lines of "Well I love him/her, so it's worth it." Yes it's scary (and expensive). The odds aren't staked in your favor. Sometimes it does feel like you're more likely to be asked to become a member of The Justice League than actually making a long distance relationship work. But, it is worth it...usually. If anything you will learn so much about yourself as a person, that you probably wouldn't have gotten from any other relationship.
I've had two long distance relationships. The first one ended terribly. The second one is a story in the making. It's difficult, to say the least. There are things that I have to work on. Have I accepted everything I said above? Most of them I have. I've had time to accept them. I'm working on some of the points I made though. What I can tell you is for me, it's worth it, 100%. In short, he makes me happy and that's really all that matters at the end of the day.
And yes, I met him online. Back in the day when it was quite common to see the letters 'a/s/l' at the beginning of a conversation.
Moral of the story? If you find someone who you you've fallen for and you're faced with the prospects of a long distance relationship, give it a shot. Plunge into the unknown, sometimes the gifts it yields are larger than life.
Till next time,
happy hunting
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| This picture was so awkward, I had to share it. |
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Stood Up Lately?
Greetings!
Two posts, two days in a row! Whoa that's a record even for me!
Today I bring you a story, that I completely forgot about until I was talking to a dear from college who was able to pull it out of my subconscious.
About three years ago I was semi seeing this dude. He was super busy and always traveling so it was bound to never work. But he could hold his liquor and was good company for awhile. My priorities were a bit skewed back then. Anyways, one night we make plans to hang out and catch up after not seeing each other for almost a month.
The night we planned comes, I text him about an hour before to make sure he wasn't flaking on me (which he had a tendency of doing because of work). 30 minutes goes by and no response. An hour comes and goes, 3 hours comes and goes...nothing. He never showed up. Naturally, I had a combination of panic and pure irritation.
The next day happens and I still haven't heard from him. Of course I text him to see what was going but all of my texts went unanswered. Finally, after a week of not hearing him I decided to let it go and move on. He drifted off into space to the point of no return. I kinda figured he got back with his ex or ended up being somewhere for work for a long time and his phone was swallowed up by a shark while he was deep sea diving? I don't know, I was over it.
2 months pass and I get a text message from a mysterious number that says something along the lines of "hey this is Stan [yea, that's a fake name]. I am so sorry about a couple months ago, I was in a coma"
...Now anyone who knows me, can probably figure out my facial expression and initial response at this point. I mean really, I've heard a lot of excuses and been stood up a good amount of times, but being in coma, I was impressed.
As the conversation went on I realized he was actually telling the truth. He got into a terrible car accident the night before we were suppose to hang out and was in a coma for 2 weeks. Pair that a bad broken leg and arm and probably a bunch of other stuff. Naturally, I felt like an asshole by the end of this conversation and while I had no intentions of seeing him anymore we did met up for dinner a couple nights later to clear the air and just decided it's best to be friends from that point forward.
So the moral of the story? Sometimes, ladies, when a guy mysteriously doesn't text you back, like ever, even after a really good first date. Maybe call around to the local hospitals, he could just be in a coma and there may still be a future for you two yet! Right after physical therapy and probably some counseling.
Anyone else have funny (or many not so funny) stories about being stood up?
Till we meet again,
ADIOS!
Two posts, two days in a row! Whoa that's a record even for me!
Today I bring you a story, that I completely forgot about until I was talking to a dear from college who was able to pull it out of my subconscious.
About three years ago I was semi seeing this dude. He was super busy and always traveling so it was bound to never work. But he could hold his liquor and was good company for awhile. My priorities were a bit skewed back then. Anyways, one night we make plans to hang out and catch up after not seeing each other for almost a month.
The night we planned comes, I text him about an hour before to make sure he wasn't flaking on me (which he had a tendency of doing because of work). 30 minutes goes by and no response. An hour comes and goes, 3 hours comes and goes...nothing. He never showed up. Naturally, I had a combination of panic and pure irritation.
The next day happens and I still haven't heard from him. Of course I text him to see what was going but all of my texts went unanswered. Finally, after a week of not hearing him I decided to let it go and move on. He drifted off into space to the point of no return. I kinda figured he got back with his ex or ended up being somewhere for work for a long time and his phone was swallowed up by a shark while he was deep sea diving? I don't know, I was over it.
2 months pass and I get a text message from a mysterious number that says something along the lines of "hey this is Stan [yea, that's a fake name]. I am so sorry about a couple months ago, I was in a coma"
...Now anyone who knows me, can probably figure out my facial expression and initial response at this point. I mean really, I've heard a lot of excuses and been stood up a good amount of times, but being in coma, I was impressed.
As the conversation went on I realized he was actually telling the truth. He got into a terrible car accident the night before we were suppose to hang out and was in a coma for 2 weeks. Pair that a bad broken leg and arm and probably a bunch of other stuff. Naturally, I felt like an asshole by the end of this conversation and while I had no intentions of seeing him anymore we did met up for dinner a couple nights later to clear the air and just decided it's best to be friends from that point forward.
So the moral of the story? Sometimes, ladies, when a guy mysteriously doesn't text you back, like ever, even after a really good first date. Maybe call around to the local hospitals, he could just be in a coma and there may still be a future for you two yet! Right after physical therapy and probably some counseling.
Anyone else have funny (or many not so funny) stories about being stood up?
Till we meet again,
ADIOS!
Saturday, March 23, 2013
Isn't that weird?
Hello lovelies,
My life has consisted of school and work with a dash of traveling. Spring break is here and I'm finding myself cramming all my work into 3 days so I can actually enjoy my Spring Break trip. Even though the destination of said trip is far from the usual sunny and Cancun like experience. No 'Girls Gone Wild' experiences here! My Dad would be proud. Lol.
Today's post comes to you because of a question I'm always asked when the topic of online dating comes up. My line of work allows me to do a lot of public speaking. I am so fortunate to meet so many amazing and inspirational people who want to do just as much good as I want to for my community.
Once an event is over, I find myself spending time with the people over food and drinks. As the drinks flow and the finger foods disappear from our tiny plates the topic of dating (or marriage) usually comes up. No matter the age, race, gender, or sexual orientation, it seems to have a way of creeping into the conversation. I also noticed that there's a very high likelihood that someone at the table met their significant other with the help of the internet. At this point people begin sharing horror stories, their own stories, their friend of a friend of a cousin's stories, etc. Being the low-level and inconsistent blogger than I am, I typically interject with something along the lines of, "Oh yea online dating is fun. So much fun I had to write a blog about it".
Online dating in 2013 is a lot different than it was say 10 or even 5 years ago. It's becoming okay to say, "Oh we met online on [insert website here]", without having to make up an intricate lie about how you really met (been there done that). In a lot of these online dating situations they may not meet their love interests for weeks, month, or even years. But, despite the lack of the initial physical contact they are still developing very real feelings for someone that they probably only know as a voice, Facebook message or occasional Skype chat. Yup, that's quite a complicated situation to be in. MTV Catfish anyone?
So yes, relationships beginning online, while complicated at times, are becoming more common these days. But that doesn't mean that people won't judge you for it. Let's go back to my hypothetical post-conference setting.
INT. APPLEBEE'S - NIGHT (Hehe yup, I was a film major for a split second as a freshman)
Is safety a concern in these situations? Yes and I have given plenty of friend's advice on the first offline meet up. Please try to refrain from being a late night news story and the top 'have you seen me' shared story on Facebook. It really would not be a good idea to run off with the first guy who made you feel pretty without ever confirming he is who he says he is. We live in the Google age, use it. On the flip side, how many stories have we seen where two people meet the "normal" way, date for awhile and get married. Only to find out a year later that they are living a secret life with three kids and a wife in Maui, have the Chinese mob after them for unpaid gambling debt and wanted for murder in Nepal? You get the point.
So there you have it. NO, it's not weird that you met your mate online and screw anyone who tries to tell you otherwise.
I leave you with a bit of nerd humor. Anyone else as excited as I am for the Doctor Who premiere next Saturday!?
Till next time,
GERONIMO!
My life has consisted of school and work with a dash of traveling. Spring break is here and I'm finding myself cramming all my work into 3 days so I can actually enjoy my Spring Break trip. Even though the destination of said trip is far from the usual sunny and Cancun like experience. No 'Girls Gone Wild' experiences here! My Dad would be proud. Lol.
Today's post comes to you because of a question I'm always asked when the topic of online dating comes up. My line of work allows me to do a lot of public speaking. I am so fortunate to meet so many amazing and inspirational people who want to do just as much good as I want to for my community.
Once an event is over, I find myself spending time with the people over food and drinks. As the drinks flow and the finger foods disappear from our tiny plates the topic of dating (or marriage) usually comes up. No matter the age, race, gender, or sexual orientation, it seems to have a way of creeping into the conversation. I also noticed that there's a very high likelihood that someone at the table met their significant other with the help of the internet. At this point people begin sharing horror stories, their own stories, their friend of a friend of a cousin's stories, etc. Being the low-level and inconsistent blogger than I am, I typically interject with something along the lines of, "Oh yea online dating is fun. So much fun I had to write a blog about it".
Online dating in 2013 is a lot different than it was say 10 or even 5 years ago. It's becoming okay to say, "Oh we met online on [insert website here]", without having to make up an intricate lie about how you really met (been there done that). In a lot of these online dating situations they may not meet their love interests for weeks, month, or even years. But, despite the lack of the initial physical contact they are still developing very real feelings for someone that they probably only know as a voice, Facebook message or occasional Skype chat. Yup, that's quite a complicated situation to be in. MTV Catfish anyone?
So yes, relationships beginning online, while complicated at times, are becoming more common these days. But that doesn't mean that people won't judge you for it. Let's go back to my hypothetical post-conference setting.
INT. APPLEBEE'S - NIGHT (Hehe yup, I was a film major for a split second as a freshman)
Cool person 1: "Oh that's nice you met your boyfriend online! That wasn't weird??"I've never actually said that last line. Seriously though, I get the question a lot. I've also gotten the murder line more times than I can count as well. Even some of my friends have suggested how "weird" it is. Yes, I will admit it is a bit out of the ordinary to meet someone online. However, I also think it's amazing that the phrase "there are plenty of fish in the sea" has a whole new meaning. Why does it have to be weird for two people who would have never crossed paths to make a real connection before the prospects of meeting is every mentioned? It's so cool to see so many websites geared towards specific interests even for people who would probably have a hard time in mainstream dating.
Me (usually in defense for someone else): "Well it's not so much weird as it is semi-unconventional. As long as you're safe, stick to what you want in a mate by not compromising your standards, and also have a good grasp on who you are as a person. You really don't have to much to be worried about"
Cool person 4: "But what if they are a weirdo and you get murdered, like by the Craig's list killer?!"
Me: "Well then that sounds like a great plot line for an episode of Criminal Minds, don't you think?"
Is safety a concern in these situations? Yes and I have given plenty of friend's advice on the first offline meet up. Please try to refrain from being a late night news story and the top 'have you seen me' shared story on Facebook. It really would not be a good idea to run off with the first guy who made you feel pretty without ever confirming he is who he says he is. We live in the Google age, use it. On the flip side, how many stories have we seen where two people meet the "normal" way, date for awhile and get married. Only to find out a year later that they are living a secret life with three kids and a wife in Maui, have the Chinese mob after them for unpaid gambling debt and wanted for murder in Nepal? You get the point.
So there you have it. NO, it's not weird that you met your mate online and screw anyone who tries to tell you otherwise.
I leave you with a bit of nerd humor. Anyone else as excited as I am for the Doctor Who premiere next Saturday!?
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Till next time,
GERONIMO!
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
Picture Fail
HELLO OUT THERE!
Yes, yes I know I have denied many of you the joys of
laughing at my unfortunate love life. However, I’m willing to bet that you are
doing just fine laughing at your own love lives. Am I right? It’s okay to nod. I
won’t judge.
Before I begin, I need to note that I am still out of the online dating game; I don’t
even have an active profile anywhere. I’m quite content where I stand in my
love life. That said, I was browsing my ideas folder and found a lot of material
to work with…so here we go!
My Top 5 Profile Picture Annoyances
The Middle Finger
Remember in 5th grade when you and your friends
learned what the middle finger was
and it was the coolest thing to do until the end of 5th grade? Yea,
well that’s about how you look if you’re sticking up your middle finger,
expecting to find a woman to take you seriously. It’s trashy, just put your
hand down next time you snap a photo.
Your Car
Dear God, does this drive me insane
(no pun intended). Now, let me begin by saying that I think it’s fantastic that
the potential date has a vehicle, A rare find in the online dating world. I do
not think it’s fantastic that it’s the first thing I see before I even click on
their screen name. I didn't realize that OKCupid also doubles as a cars
classified section. I mean, come on guys! Why do you think we want to see 5-20
pictures of your 2001 Honda Accord?
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| You want some of that? |
Internet Memes
Anyone who knows me knows that I’m kind of addicted to the internet.
It’s a problem…really. Who doesn't like a good, “Y U NO” meme? I don’t like when
it’s the main picture! Yes, it shows you might
have a sense of humor. It also shows that you’re too chicken shit to actually
take the time to put up a decent picture of yourself. If I wanted to click through
an endless supply of memes, I’d go to Pinterest. Thanks though!
Posing with a Female in a Not so Platonic Way
Believe it or not, I've seen this a lot. Let’s paint a
picture for you now…take a good looking man (insert race here), posing for a
picture (let’s say a party?), with a woman KISSING him! YES! Please explain to
me, WHY this is even considered as a main picture. The only time that this is
ok is if you’re on craigslist... and…well I’ll let your imagination go wild.
Once, I responded to the message of said person’s photo and his response was “Oh,
well I liked my smile in it”. Seriously…gah. moving on.
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| You get the picture. |
Baby Pictures
There's a serious creep factor for a man to post a picture
of himself when he was a mere 5 years-old. What’s worse is he expects me to
click on the photo because he thinks I’ll be mesmerized by his adorable
dimples? Maybe, I’m alone in this opinion, but if I click on John Doe’s toddler
photo, that is a red flag that I may be a pedophile. A label I don’t ever want associated
with my name. What would that message to him look like anyways, “Hey! Nice
tricycle!!”
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| It happens. |
Happy dating lovelies! <3 nbsp="nbsp" p="p">
Friday, June 15, 2012
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"
Hello Beautifuls!!
My sister and I are on the phone today and she gets a questionable message from a guy who messaged her in the past that said something along the lines of..."I'm sorry I'm a lying piece of shit, I used this website to cheat on my girlfriend..." Granted, these were not the exact words, but you get the gist. So, she got curious and was met with THIS amazing profile!
Note: the other captions said...'me and my girlfriend who I cheated on using this site', 'I will never see this girl again, because I'm an idiot', and finally, my personal favorite 'I'm a pervert',
Then you to find this, wonderfully typed, short, and sweet message for all the single women on the internet by said ex-girlfriend:
I wish I can find this woman and give her a standing ovation and buy her drinks all night! I know a few of my friends would pitch in and some of their friends and so forth!
You ma'am are today's...Bad Ass Woman!
Boys what have we learned today?
1. Don't cheat!
2. Be careful if you call a woman psycho, because it is likely that she will show you psycho given the chance that you royally screw up.
and
3. Clear your browsing history, cache, and temp files and NEVER save your passwords if you're cheating on your girlfriend using the internet! (haha)
My sister and I are on the phone today and she gets a questionable message from a guy who messaged her in the past that said something along the lines of..."I'm sorry I'm a lying piece of shit, I used this website to cheat on my girlfriend..." Granted, these were not the exact words, but you get the gist. So, she got curious and was met with THIS amazing profile!
Note: the other captions said...'me and my girlfriend who I cheated on using this site', 'I will never see this girl again, because I'm an idiot', and finally, my personal favorite 'I'm a pervert',
Then you to find this, wonderfully typed, short, and sweet message for all the single women on the internet by said ex-girlfriend:
I wish I can find this woman and give her a standing ovation and buy her drinks all night! I know a few of my friends would pitch in and some of their friends and so forth!
You ma'am are today's...Bad Ass Woman!
Boys what have we learned today?
1. Don't cheat!
2. Be careful if you call a woman psycho, because it is likely that she will show you psycho given the chance that you royally screw up.
and
3. Clear your browsing history, cache, and temp files and NEVER save your passwords if you're cheating on your girlfriend using the internet! (haha)
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
THANK YOU, times a million!
This post would have came to you 2 weeks ago, except my computer decided it wanted to throw a tantrum and crash on me. She is still sitting somewhere in a hot and humid warehouse in the middle of Kentucky, probably gutted while it waits for her operation (aka hard drive).Maybe, one of my unsuspecting victims caught word on my lil' blog project and decided to reap havoc?
So yea...that happened, sadness.
But the important part is that YOU guys have helped to bring my blog to over 1,000 views!!!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU THANK YOU. I hope someone is finding a laugh out of my posts and maybe a lil' bit of insight into your own dating lives. I have a couple ideas that are brewing in my brain but I haven't be able to put a witty twist to them quite yet.
Till then, I shall share with you a picture of the fellow who sent me a message about 2 weeks ago and
bid you farewell 'til next time!
Happy hunting! :)
So yea...that happened, sadness.
But the important part is that YOU guys have helped to bring my blog to over 1,000 views!!!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU THANK YOU. I hope someone is finding a laugh out of my posts and maybe a lil' bit of insight into your own dating lives. I have a couple ideas that are brewing in my brain but I haven't be able to put a witty twist to them quite yet.
Till then, I shall share with you a picture of the fellow who sent me a message about 2 weeks ago and
bid you farewell 'til next time!
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| Winner, winner chicken dinner! |
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